Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Bee and Flower

 Withered roses, the bees are still hard suck,UGG boots cheap, because it takes before sucking off from this little sweet. But now in this little to spend, the bees suck the venom.
Bees know this, because the bitter venom with previous taste is different. As a result, bees anger, however, breathe on it the whole world looked up to complain about, why the taste changed?!
Finally one day, do not know why the bees wing vibration , fly a little higher. At this time, it found, withered roses around the flowers everywhere.
Psychological Review
This is the fable about love, is a young language teacher of the true sentiment.
There was a time, she rejected in love, painful, and always wanted to talk about me, I hope I can give her some knowledge of psychology help. We have some time, but almost two months later, the total time they can not happened to get together.
last time about her, she said: her trance, unable to enjoy the beauty of Jiuzhaigou. inadvertently, she noticed a little on the honey bee is a flower. that moment, her mind like thunder and lightning appeared in one sentence: flowers, the bees can only suck the venom. Her insight to give up the truth out. In the past, she wanted me to help her out, but in fact, the long wings in her own body, she can fly to fly.
give up is not easy to give up, especially so in love human suffering. because love is when our young copy of parent-child relationship. young children, no matter from which side, parents can not do without. If a complete denial of his father and mother, and that means for him to death, injury and this is the ultimate fear. We were more or less my parents have experienced the pain of denial and fear, so when love mmm copy of the parent-child relationship once again we experience the pain and fear , our emotions can easily become very bad.
However, compared to love and parent-child relationship, there is a huge difference: a child, nothing we can do, all parents have the final say; But now, we grew up We have the power to choose his own destiny. can be said that a child, we do not have wings, small bees, but now we have a pair of powerful wings.
However, when deeply in love when We will return to childhood, we forget that they have a pair of wings to fly. and so we ourselves realize that, the love is no longer automatically copy parent-child relationship, our love was free, there is a waiver of power.
Remember: Love is two things, two completely equal, there are things that people independent personality. You can work, but not that hard for you there will be results, because another person You can not determine.
So, no matter how much you care about the time love, if another person determined to leave you, please respect his choice.
And also remember, you are no longer childhood, only let the pain of torture. you have adults, you have a pair of powerful wings, you can fly out of a relationship has become poison.
hiding in a given time, miss some time with the palm; hiding in a given location, also stand to miss a standing antecedents path, let me worry about the people.

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